Saturday, March 06, 2010

Life goes on, whether we want it to or not. My heart has been broken a million times over these past days. Most of it comes from watching my eldest go through her first, worst, break up ever.
I hate this.
The break up itself has been difficult enough. The move into a smaller home has us all jockeying for our own space and there truly is so little of it.
The worst, the very worst of all of this has been the breakdown of a family unit.What else can you call, really? We welcomed Spencer into our hearts and home, made him one of us.
It seems so unfair that Kayla has to give up her confidant and Jessica has now lost the closest think to an older brother that she has ever known.
Shawn has lost a fishing buddy, and Spencer has lost his father figure.
KC has lost all thst she has known for the last three years. The person that she loved lied, cheated and betrayed her in nearly every way possible. This is not a transgression that I take lightly....My daughters are my everything.
If there is one good that came of this it's that my daughter is back at home where she is cherished and loved for the wonderful woman that she is.

7 comments:

DILLIGAF said...

Been sending her hugs babe. She's strong, she'll be fine.

Sadly I'm a middle aged married drunk so I can do no more than send her webby hugs.

Mind you I would like to fish...;-)

Laura said...

So sorry that you all have to go through this.
Sending big hugs to you and all your family.

((Hugs))
Laura

DILLIGAF said...

Well the Chinese are on board anyway!...;-)

Canadian flake said...

hi just stopped in to say hi...hope you don't mind. Sorry your family is having such a hard time....breaking up is always hard to do...the song was sooooo right about that.

Hang in there...will send some good thoughts your way...and a big rock to drop on his head...lol.

Canadian flake said...

sorry to bug you again..just happened to stop by Jaime's blog (grace too) saw a comment that you had heard from her sister last November...if you get a second could you drop me a line and let me know how she was doing??? either on facebook or at lowe_9@sympatico.ca. Thanks again.

CindyDianne said...

Biddie - I just read her latest post. She's gonna be just Jim Dandy. Give her 3 weeks, tops!

She's better off without him.

grrrarrrg said...

Heartbreak is so hard, especially when watching our children hurt. You'll be in my prayers.