Friday, February 26, 2010

I don't even know where to start. KC has moved back home, and I am good with that. We have always told her that she could come back home with us any time. So, this was the time.
Things had not being go well with her and Spencer, and they have decided that maybe they will be better apart. These things happen. They were both very young when they got involved, I think that Spencer was only 19 when KC moved in with him...
Shawn and I had an idea that thie relationship may not be forever (mostly due to thier young ages).
I have tried to stay neutral on this matter. The last thing that you want is to trash the ex only have the happy couple reunite. I doubt that is going to happen, so I am going to rant a wee bit.
This guy has grown up issues to deal with - unpaid bills, items that were purchased together need to be sorted, and maybe Spencer will have to put on big boy pants for 10 minutes so that KC can actually move on with her life.
I HATE this. Watching my kid, my girl, suffering because the person that she was with for 3 years has suddenly decided that he needs to be a kid again.
I am just effing angry. My kid deserves better, she should be feeling great about herself, not wondering what is wrong with her.
She is gorgeous, funny, well educated, personable, intellegent..The list goes on.
I just want to be able to fast forward through all of the pain that KC is in. I can't stand watching her anymore. She deserves respect and love, not this.
I'm sorry...I wanted to be able to say that I was ok with all of this, but the truth is, I think that I am almost as heartbroken as my daughter.


CindyDianne said...

Yeah, that sucks on most every level. The only good news, if one can call it that, was that they were mature enough to decide it wasn't working and do something about it. Poor KC. I imagine you are quite angry, I would be too! My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Brianne said...

at least she has a great family to support her!

Coffeypot said...

It is very hard to say neutral when your kids are involved. But she has to find out things on her own before they will sitck.

Gardenia said...

Well, here is the hardest part. Walking with our grown kids through their catastrophes in life! And biting our tongues, and supporting them at the same time. I am heart broken at the young people who go through life and have no support, KC is blessed you are there for her. My girls get mad at themselves for poor mate choices - but I tell them, how could you have known - maybe hints were there, but you had no experience base - how can you beat yourself up for your innocense? Just move on and work on healing, while all the time I hurt for them and have to work on MY healing too.
KC is everything you say, and yes, she deserves so much more - I'm sending up a prayer for her that this transition will be a learning experience and she can move on with grace and excitement for the life she will be creating.

Palm Springs Savant said...

uh, I do understand. That is also quite frustrating not to be able to do anything to make it right either

sunshine said...

I'm so sorry that your daughter has had her heart broken.
No one likes to see their children hurting. I can only imagine how hard this must be on you....


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Kimber said...

From some of the conversations we've had, you and I both know first hand what it's like to be betrayed and to have our partners turn out to be bratty children rather than the men we thought they were. It just adds insult to the injury to see your own daughter have to go through the same thing! Especially since you so warmly welcomed him into your family and heart.

Heart-break is part of life; your beautiful daughter will learn and grow from this experience as much as she will ache and hurt. She is lucky to have such a supportive and fearsomely protective mother on her side.


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